I certainly never gave one to any employer. My neighbor does the same way realtor who was murdered by someone she showed a house to. If nothing else, it might nudge the employee to quit her job properly next time. No one bothered calling me or checking up or anything, but at the time, I didnt really care. Jane had not been there long so she is probably fine. I had visions of the entire mall burning down or thieves walking in and emptying the place out, and it would be all my fault. Let her know that if she gets in touch now, I can coordinate with her to do it then (when theyll want publicity for her book). I couldnt do this myself (grew up in a place where this was just not done, and quite a few people also had metal bars on their windows), but I think its adorable. Cheating, abuse, addiction, severe out of control lyingokay, those are good reasons to never talk to someone again. Hes one of our old-timers! I had been there three months. I knew the coworker had some chronic health problems, but I didnt realize her health was that bad. Granted, my mom also had a stalker when I was little and he broke in a couple times. I figured the chances of locking myself out were greater than the chance that someone would get all the way to my door and then give up on burgling it because the door was locked. Inappropriate and morbid, but I did laugh at the image in my head. Not in the case that it doesnt happen, just that it wouldnt be the first thing Id jump to. We all gave them a key, and if we forgot or lost ours, they were home and had one for us. I didnt call them or tell them I was quitting. Keep an eye out for our new hit single, Joaquin Got Them Wakeen Blues.. If hed had a habit of being late, or we didnt know he had a regular schedule then maybe wed have waited a few hours before someone deciding to check on him. Even my neighbors would blow it off, because theyre used to seeing my car in the driveway so they wouldnt know. They werent necessarily limited to one phone call but we also didnt have time to sit there while they made a bunch of calls. His office called the police, and they did a welfare check. So I never worry about locking the door, but I ALWAYS worry about double-checking Ive got my keys before I leave the house. (I dont think this is whats happening at OPs moms office, but I most definitely have seen this behavior in the workplace. I would send a certified letter with final pay, and change locks she had access to, in addition to making sure her logon credentials are disabled for any of your systems. Maybe, but you would think that if the person were okay the police would be able to confirm something like that (and if the person said this is my stalker ex, please do not give them any information about me they would be happy to comply with the request and hopefully have a couple officers show up at said stalkers home to explain the concept of misuse of police resources). Still not sure who he was, small college so not a classmate, likely a visiting very drunk Acapella member. The day before my boss offered her the job, we discovered that she had stolen the doctors personal credit card number and used it to stay overnight in a local hotel and order hundreds of dollars worth of pizza. I always move the bookcase from the side whether I take the books out first or not. As far as anyone could surmise, Trainee was used to doing freelance work from home, and this was her learning that she just was not interested in any kind of office job that she had to go in for every day. Something had happened that morning that she believed might lead to the discovery of it. This is exactly what I was going to suggest. Wed lock all existing doors inside the house, occupied or not, unless we were planning to move about a bit. Which is fine, as a tribal college they give a lot of leeway for substance and traditional cultural activities.The problem was the next morning he didnt come in, and his wife who also worked there said he hadnt come home. I believe you can set up a contact called the police with a phone number and then say Alexa [or Siri or whatever], call the police. I came close once. At one of my first job, we had an employee who was only there for a few weeks, left for lunch and emailed her resignation. Or at least in the evening. Two hours after he said he was leaving, I was about to call the police when he called me back. They are much better equipped to assess it and to handle any potential emergency situation, and if its just an employee who doesnt want to be contacted again they can relay that info back to the employer so that appropriately hands-off arrangements to mail a final check etc. We felt terrible, but I also felt like if one of my kids was in that situation, I would rather people respond with an over abundance of caution than no response at all. I do think leaving on the first/second day (first week or so?) Anyway, it made me think that workplaces should grab additional information from employees about their comfort level with invasive steps like welfare checks, etc I would be happy to scribble a line or two about preferring that my emergency contacts and/or the police handle things rather than my employer. On the other hand, the time it happened to me (not-quite-as-reliable freelancer was late on a super-important project and just stopped responding to emails or phone calls), coincidentally, I had a friend who worked for the same company (she had a regular part-time day job as well as the freelance gig). She had classes downtown, had to take the bus, etc., so it made total sense. Some people do quit jobs by just leaving at lunch and never coming back, so its possible that thats what happened. Sounds like a hermit more than anything to me. I had a boyfriend of about 4 years do this to me. If I thought the emergency contact was in a position to help Id call them. Its a legitimate worry and not a bad thing to check up on people when they dont show someplace theyre supposed to be, but agreed that Id call that emergency contact first. OP, your mother needs to check on that so she doesnt lose her DEA license. Please tell your mother to call. Rather than risk it or get a call that they try to take and get fired, theyll put in 1234561234 or something similar, which often doesnt get caught until you try to use the number. But people can lie unconscious for a long while, or just with a broken hip in their bathroom.. I would advise reviewing organization bank accounts/credit card for suspicious activity.. Im not sure why you went to employee theft first thing. Hahaha, oh my gosh, I almost did this to a neighbor of mine a few years ago! He came back a month later, and was super confused about why we had reassigned his work and sent a final paycheck, removed him from the health insurance plan, etc. This is generally because government incentives sometimes. She was in a coma for quite a while and ended up losing a full years worth of memories and almost died. Unfortunately she was deeply hypoxic by that point and never recovered consciousness, and she passed away a few weeks later. You must never go there, Simba.. The following night (Friday), I ended up back in the ER at 1 am and didnt leave the hospital until Sunday afternoon. Meanwhile we have to figure out what to do about her job in the meanwhile, with no idea if shell be out long enough that we need a temp, So far since we did at least get the one email from her mother we havent asked for a welfare check, but Im considering it if we dont hear anything by the end of the week. Asking for a welfare check might end up being annoying to a person who just wanted to quit their job without hassle, but that's a consequence of disappearing with no explanation. IDK what the deal was, but he was back the next day and apologized about the clock. Another coworker had a similar situation where she went home, had a stroke and didnt show up for work. The policy was that you needed to call in Monday morning, calling collect was fine, and the company would always accept the charges (cost of doing business). And I woke up a couple times to someone trying the door, though I had no way to know whether it was an innocent drunk mistake or another theft attempt. Also, the windows in houses in that neighborhood were put in with screws on the outside, so a simple screwdriver could be used to remove a window. My mother and I were sitting in the kitchen when the front door to the apartment opened and a strange woman walked in. I knew I had to bail when the owner walked in one day to introduce a new employee and said, Over on the register is Drew. And it can take hours to tow the whale back to the ice shelf from the open ocean where it was killed. After a while, my other intern, who was friends with her, mentioned that the missing intern had a date the night before with someone she met online. Misconception #2: Social media reports are an invasion of the candidate's privacy. Oooh, but I bet there was a lot of speculation! In theory, the emergency contact could be the reason the person is missing or just someone who would create more problems. So a sort of opposite thing happened in my office six or seven years ago. So they were prepping the animal to throw it in the back of their truck to take back home to skin and butcher when their families found them. I read a story about a woman in Olney, MD who went missing and who didnt show up to her teaching job. Honestly, if one person gets saved by a well-timed welfare check that was inspired by AAMs column today, I think Alison can say that she has done right by the internet. Haha that just made me remember my first retail job! After going through several temps, we found a wonderful person to fill the role permanently. Our management wound up having to contact his emergency contacts, his landlord (our employee) broke into his apartment after a few days to see if he was there (he wasnt), no one could get ahold of him. Her husband called the office to ask if she was working late, and she wasnt shed gotten into a fatal accident on the way home :(. Turned out someone had hit a moose and the ladies didnt want the meat and skin to go to waste. A teacher at my childs daycare did this, about a week after she started working therewent out to lunch and never came back. That way they knew when I ought to be back. Yeah, I had an admin walk off on her first day. The first day, I asked our team lead if the co-worker had called in no. The lock needed replacingsometimes it worked, and sometimes it didnt. A few hours after lunch I got a call from the supervisor asking me if I knew why she didnt come back, and I told him what shed said. He was alive but passed away after a week or so in the hospital. I was seriously in panic mode. The law (or guidance, not sure which but knowing the Phils, the law probably) was we had to send a letter to their last known address giving them three days to show back up (!!) If they live alone and gave me prior permission to initiate those contact because they were worried about something happening and no one finding them, then I would do that as well. Im supposed to be studying. This afternoon my org sent out a reminder to everyone to update their emergency contact info. She left under similarly odd circumstances after about 8 months, and colleagues who asked HR to confirm her welfare were firmly told to let it go. I agree with Alison that the employee should at least be checked up on. We tell employees in orientation that we will request a welfare check if they no-show/no-call and we cant get a hold of them via their phone/email/text (whatever communication preferences theyve provided. I got a phone call from daycare saying Hey, we called Mr. Mossy to come get your daughter and he didnt show. Im frantically trying to call him to no answer, and then bailed and left to get her. I was living in another city, about an hour away from my parents, and taking evening classes at the local university. While I was on my first date with my now-husband, his name, town of residence, and phone number were on a notepad on my kitchen table. My cousins best friend was missing a week before anyone noticed, and then it was because he missed a weekly phone call with his parents. Not to mention cases where dogs are shot because they bark and dont want strangers entering the home . Dad in his frugal wisdom had set up a block on his phone so that it couldnt get long-distance calls, so I ended up having to walk home over an hour (too late for bus service) to find him waiting at my apartment. I drove to the store and back to our apartment along different routes, and checked that nothing had happened at the store as well as I could. So sad and horrible. My old boss had a neighbour call in a welfare check for her because the neighbour hadnt seen her for a few days. Ask a lawyer - it's free! (The Misfortune of Marion Palm, by Emily Culliton.). I work for a large 15k employer and they have my emergency contact on file. I know I had to explain that to a 18+ high school student who didnt call in sick to the office one day. If they are on that list then even if you knew your patient was there I wouldnt be able to connect you unless you had an additional piece of info (at both current and last job place it is a code number that we give to the patients but some places have different set ups). Yeah, I think its not uncommon for the police to confirm that somebody is okay but doesnt want contact. to see if I had been there that morning. But in a lot of places, jails are run by the country sheriff, which is a separate organization from city police (unless you live in an unincorporated county area), so sometimes, the right hand doesnt have any idea what the left hand is up to. I would err on the side of caution and contact the police if you havent already. I dont think theres anything untoward about a workplace making the call to send the police out just to check. She is still missing today and lord knows I came to my own conclusions. https://apps.texastribune.org/unholstered/mental-illness-text/ how many times did people die at that office that they had an SOP like that? If your emergency contacts are inaccessible due to extreme weather, then what? My sister lived alone in another state, about a 12 hour drive from me. I would not call her parents or the police. Quite the party. I had a pizza delivery job one summer in college. I also worked in a facility that accepted juveniles so it was extra crucial that parents were made aware. Im not sure if that makes it more embarrassing or less. When I was in college, I worked for the department of anesthesiology at a university. I would start by calling the employee, then the emergency contact, and then progress to the police if needed. But I dont think displaying caring and compassion, and letting it drop if its made clear its not welcome, is ever a wrong starting point. Like, WOW. Shouldnt they? The following rules must be observed: (1) The employer must notify the employee about the tip credit allowance before the credit is utilized; (2) The employees must be allowed to retain all tips (individually or collectively); (3) The employer must be able to show by records that the employee receives at least the applicable SCA minimum wage . I think it was a warrant on an unpaid traffic ticket? Blue Anne, if your friend would let me interview her, Id love to. They had a new hire start at this persons old place, and on the morning of the new hires first day, he said he was going to go get something from his car real quick. Thankfully, coworkers saw her around town so they were able to let management know that she was okay. But that was retail, and the employee was older and probably realized all of a sudden that they just did not need this crap. Our managers didnt even have the decency to fix the schedule and cover that loss. If I had someone living with me go missing for a week without warning, I think I might get worried! I really hope she just flaked but I dont blame you for being worried. I had a freshman student who didnt show up to my class the first day, or the second. It was only with that effort the local police were able to track down the guys Mom. How would you feel if your employee was in bed with a raging flu, and the police broke down her door and then shot her for good measure because they thought she was hiding under the blankets? Particularly since people pick their own emergency contact. I did it as a teenager! Im not required to peer in windows etc. I definitely walked into the wrong apartment multiple times in my old apartment building (sometimes even when coming back with the dog from a walk).
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